The Cuteness Curse

The Cuteness Curse

There is no doubt that some of the most popular dog breeds are seen to be 'cute' by so many people across the world.  This definitely plays a huge part in their popularity.  After all, although we should not judge a dog by appearances alone, this is absolutely how first impressions are usually formed.  As humans, we tend to be naturally drawn towards dogs with big eyes, rounder faces and softer features, as they mimic human baby faces.  It is something that happens to us subconsciously and it explains why breeds such as French Bulldogs are so popular.  

Many less informed people, still take one look at at a bull breed dog (like Staffordshire Bull Terriers or English Bull Terriers) and feel instantly fearful, simply because of how they look on the outside.  This is partially because of how the media has portrayed them, but they are unlikely to want to get to know them further.  However, they would most probably find that they are in fact sweet tempered and loving.  

However, this works both ways, as dogs that are considered 'cute' are often trusted much more readily than others, despite them not being known individually.

Having shared my life with lots of different breeds and crosses, from a whole host of different backgrounds, this is something I have found to be true personally.  Strangers are much more likely to approach a stereotypically cute looking dog such as a Pug, Chihuahua or Cockerpoo for example, because of their undoubtedly sweet looking exteriors.  However, this can be a recipe for disaster, as some dogs simply do not wish to be approached or touched by strangers, regardless of their breed.  I call this the 'Cuteness Curse.' 

The Cuteness Curse can also be a problem for ill-informed new dog lovers, looking to purchase or adopt their first dog.  They too may be swayed by their potential canine companions cute looks, instead of taking the time to research their breed traits and characteristics in depth.  Breeds such as the Dachshund have gained hugely in popularity in recent years, yet many owners simply do not realise exactly what they are taking on.  Their long backs can be prone to injuries if they are not carefully looked after.  They are also relatively barky dogs and can be destructive as they love to dig.  In fact, they are bred to dig and chase burrowing animals from their underground homes, so they are simply channeling this natural instinct that has been bred into them for hundreds of years.  They are not simply a cute little lap dog who will be happy sitting on the sofa for hours on end with nothing to occupy their busy little minds. 

Similarly, the Cockerpoo and other 'Doodle' crossbreeds are more popular now than ever before.  It seems you cannot go a day without meeting one somewhere!  Yet again though, their needs are not always prioritised over their looks.  It is clear why people find them hard to resist, with their curly coats and big eyes, but they are also superbly intelligent.  Despite common misconception, Poodles are actually amongst some of the cleverest breeds, so when you cross that with another brainy breed like the Cocker Spaniel, or the Labrador, you are sure to get a dog that is super smart.  Without plenty of mental stimulation and exercise, they can be prone to developing behavioural issues, including resource guarding, separation anxiety, destructive behaviours and more.  So you are not guaranteed a happy-go-lucky dog as you may have thought.  

There are pros and cons to every single breed and crossbreed you can think of, and not all of them will be suitable for everyones individual situations.  Just because the dog may be tiny, or cute or sweet looking, does not mean that they are not a living, breathing creature, capable of feeling emotions.  No matter what their breed, all dogs need the opportunity to regularly exercise both their bodies and their minds too.  In fact, this is essential to every dog's wellbeing.  So before you choose your next dog, whether they be rescued or purchased, really think about if you can satisfy their needs.  And be sure that you do not fall into the trap of the 'Cuteness Curse'. 

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